T100 Children's Clothing: Parenting Education - Who is the Container of Family Emotions

T100 Children's Clothing: Parenting Education - Who is the Container of Family Emotions

A male visitor, his mother, always told him how his father was irresponsible. My visitor also agreed with what his mother said and felt that his father was a arrogant, selfish, irresponsible person, but his mother “betrayed” him and gave birth to his father’s brother and sister. And even if he quarreled with his father, he refused to divorce his father and did not want to follow his son. Many years after this visitor came to realize that his father had the obligation to marry his own wife. If his parents did not, the son would never be able to make up for what his mother needed. Maybe parenting is the model they live with.

I also met a teenage boy whose dad would tell him how the family was; and his mother would tell him how the grandmother was; finally one day, the child said to the parents: " Both of you are really bothered. When my mother was away from home, you talked about my family. When my dad was away from home, you talked to my grandmother's house. Are you bored and not bored?" This word awoke the dreamer, the parent, and finally agreed No longer tells the children that they are not satisfied with their parents' affairs.

There is another boy. Just after the sixth grade, he said to his parents: "In the future, when you quarrel, you will give me five bucks! Make up for the damage my heart has suffered."

There was a girl in a senior high school. She recalled that when she was in the first year, her parents quarrelled. She trained a skill. She lived on the fourth floor. After her parents quarreled, she left her mouth and headed up every time. The floor made him happy. After the fourth floor was finished, she threw her parents’ quarrel behind her head and went to school in the sun. However, she said that what she most deeply impressed during the junior high school years was that she sat alone on the playground to see the sunset, felt inner and outer divisions, and felt that he was the most unreal person among the classmates.

Another visitor, a young man, was expelled from many schools. Because he always quarreled with his classmates, vindicated with the teacher, and swayed and swayed, and he couldn't classify the classroom. His mother had no way of regulating him, because at first he was a tool for his mother. When he was stricken, his mother would call the dad who didn't go home and said, "I can't control the kid, you can't control it. Have to go home!” Many years later, the child’s mother’s really troubled mother couldn’t control it. Her mother discovered that she should not use her child as a tool to get her husband back home.

The child has energy and said: "Mom, you look a little angry today!" The child has the guts to say: "Daddy, don't rush me out at work!" The child has the strength to take that negative emotion and take it back. To parents, it was really a very difficult and arduous journey. It was really the same as the Red Army's 25,000-mile Long March. Some children died in battle, and some children survived.

Therefore, the way Dad loves children is to appreciate and love children's mothers. The way that mothers love children is to appreciate and love children's father. This is definitely a test that can measure whether parents really love children. Everyone, every person who is a parent, can compare it, whether his love for the child is based on the family's love. You can look back and see who in your family system is the container of negative emotions in the family.

I wish the children in my family, I wish my parents will grow up happy if they have not grown up and have been growing up.

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